Free Resources

Everything you need to navigate your parent's medical crisis.

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Falls

First response and evaluation

Checklist

Falls: First 72 Hours Checklist

Immediate action steps after a fall—who to call, what to document, how to get answers from medical staff.

Guide

Falls: Hospital Visit Preparation

What to bring, what questions to ask, how to advocate for your parent during hospital evaluation.

Hospitalization

Navigating hospital stays

Checklist

Hospital Stay Daily Checklist

Daily tasks, medication tracking, meal coordination, visitor management, and staff communication.

Worksheet

Questions to Ask Doctors During Hospitalization

Ready-to-use questions for rounds, procedures, discharge planning, and understanding the treatment plan.

Checklist

Hospital Discharge Planning Checklist

What to ask before leaving the hospital, prescriptions, follow-up appointments, at-home care setup.

Surgery Recovery

Pre and post-operative care

Guide

Before Surgery: What You Need to Know

Pre-operation preparation, what to expect, questions to ask surgeons, family communication plan.

Guide

Post-Surgery Recovery Guide

Recovery timeline, pain management, wound care, activity restrictions, and when to seek help.

Template

Post-Surgery Care Schedule Template

Organize medications, meals, physical therapy, doctor visits, and caregiver coordination.

Stroke Recovery

Immediate response and rehabilitation

Guide

Stroke: Immediate Response (First Hours)

What happens at the hospital, medications used, tests to expect, questions for the care team.

Guide

Stroke Recovery: Weeks 1-8

Rehabilitation expectations, therapy types, progress tracking, adaptation strategies at home.

Guide

Communicating with a Stroke Survivor

Tips for talking to your parent if speech or cognition is affected, frustration management, encouragement.

Family Communication

Keeping everyone informed

Template

Family Update Templates (Email & Text)

Ready-to-use formats for daily updates, difficult news, asking for specific help, setting boundaries.

Template

Scripts for Difficult Conversations

How to talk to siblings, handle disagreements, address end-of-life wishes, manage family dynamics.

Worksheet

Setting Boundaries with Family (Examples)

Sample language for protecting your mental health, managing intrusive questions, delegating tasks.

Work & Leave

FMLA and workplace support

Guide

FMLA Basics: What You Need to Know

Eligibility, certification process, how long you can take, your rights, and common misconceptions.

Template

What to Say to Your Employer (Script)

Word-for-word template for notifying your manager, requesting time off, and discussing accommodations.

Checklist

Know Your Rights: Job Protection Checklist

Documentation checklist, what to keep, red flags, when to consult an employment lawyer.

Care Planning

Documentation and logistics

Worksheet

Advance Directives & Healthcare Proxy: What to Ask

Questions to determine your parent's end-of-life wishes, healthcare proxy preferences, and decision authority.

Guide

Insurance Navigation 101

How to read explanations of benefits, appeal denials, get pre-authorization, negotiate bills.

Checklist

Financial & Legal Documents Checklist

Where to find important documents, how to organize them, who needs access, and why it matters.

Guide

Long-Term Care Planning After Crisis

Home care vs. facility options, costs, caregiver sustainability, and family role negotiation.

Frequently Asked Questions

Are these resources really free?

Yes, completely free. No email signup required. No account needed. Download them anytime.

What file formats are they in?

Resources are available as PDFs, Google Docs templates, and editable Word documents. Choose what works best for you.

Can I share these with family or friends?

Absolutely. Share them freely with your siblings, family members, or anyone helping to support your parent. That's the whole point.

What's the difference between these and the paid products?

These are practical resources for adult children in crisis right now. The paid HR products are specialized toolkits for HR professionals managing employee leave, training, and workplace accommodations.

Can I customize these templates?

Yes. Download them and edit as needed—add your parent's details, your family's preferences, your workplace information. They're meant to be personalized.

Are these medical documents or legal advice?

No. These are practical guides and templates to help you organize information and have better conversations with medical staff, family, and employers. Always consult medical and legal professionals for advice specific to your situation.

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